Wednesday 21 November 2012

I never like Goodbye -- Breaking Dawn

One thing I don't like the most is to say goodbye, whatever the kind of goodbye. 

I know sure that life is always about Hello and Goodbye, and the worst thing to happen in life is about Goodbye. It should be called as Bad-bye actually, i think.. Bad-bye is commonly be a melancholic and full of tears, and the best place to watch this melancholic event nowhere but airport! (remember adegan Cinta dan Rangga on AADC) Lol.

And talking about goodbye, me and other friends must sadly say goodbye to Twilight Saga, since it's come to the last part as the epic final. Honestly I'm not a big fans of Twilight Saga, but i follow the development of this story. For me, Twilight stories was began on around 2007 (i don't know when was Twilight officially published), it was my friend who recommended me to read the novel--that she said it's a really fantastic and can't stand for it. And I had a big expectation at the moment, and was thought it would be as gorgeous as Harry Potter, and badly to say, it wasn't. Too much drama for me.. But good news is, I still like it however I still prefer for Harry Potter. 

So I continuing to read the next part and also watching all the movie series, Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse, and Breaking Dawn. And in my opinion, the best part of Twilight Saga is Breaking Dawn. I like it the most from all the books, don't know why. Maybe because they get a adorable baby and there is a duel part on this movie? Haha.. And I proudly recommending for all people who watching or reading the previous movies or novels to not past this epic final! Everything and everyone are changing! See these photo progress (since I copy from Google, some of official posters are can't be copied. so I change it) :







I don't know how is your opinion from these poster, but for me, it is changing, and everyone on the movie are more beautiful, especially Bella Cullen (Kristen Steward) on this epic final: Breaking Dawn part 2, since she already become a vampire, her make up is so amazing. Her face is flawless, her eyes, eyebrows, nose and lips. Love it so much, and one more good news, she dressed very well on this movie (on previous, she too casual for me). And no doubt, Jacob Black (Taylor Lautner), still adorable as always on this movie <3>

I won't talk about the movie, coz I don't to be a spoiler, but if I can describe this movie with one words, it would be: errgghh. Hehehee... Believe me, this movie is the best from all Twilight Saga movies, and also so-errrghh. Watch it by yourself and u can find how errgh it is :D
  
Previosly, I never think this is a really good movie. I think it's too dramatic, bella too labil, and a bit non-sense. But this non-sense just remind me and force me to believe that eternal love does exist. Oh my God, I know I kind of a hard-hearted and a bit hard to be touched, but their struggle in defending their love is just amazingly touching me. And I can't describe with word, but love, is always and will always sacred. :)

So before I close this post, I will share the trailer of the epic final, and some of my fav ost of Twilight Saga Ost. from Youtube:
Trailer of Breaking Dawn part 2

 Flightless Bird, American Mouth - Iron and Wine

Carter Burwell - Bella's Lullaby

A Thousand Years - Christina Perry

Sunday 11 November 2012

Game as same as Life, Life as same as Game

Semua orang pasti suka main dong? Mulai dari permainan jadul nan simpel macam kelereng, congklak, sampe agak canggih macam gameboy atau tamagoci, dan PS1-PS2-PS3-PSP (well yg gw sebutin semua so last year yah), dan dengan berat hati dan sirik hati, iPad, maenan untuk anak-anak dibawah umur jaman sekarang. Omo, gw aja dulu kalo maen semua serba manual. Kalo mo maen masak-masakan yah beneran pake alat2 masak. Kalo anak sekarang kan tinggal simply donlot game macam cooking mama dan bermainlah mereka. Cuma tastenya beda deh.. Mending back to nature. Kalo kata sapa gitu di film Skyfall, kadang kembali cara lama lebih berguna atau lebih apa gitu lupa gw..

Nah, terus semuanya pasti pernah main atau minimal tau yah game Sims (oke, sebenernya gw malahan yang ga pernah main game ini. Gw pernah main game semacam ini, cuma bukan merek sims. heheh). Nah, yang mau gw bahas kali ini adalah tentang Sims. This game is related with our real life, or maybe this game is made based on our real life.  Yah bisa dibilang semacam itulah ya. So, Game as same as life, and life as same as game

Game macam Sims (since i never played it, but I think it just same with the kind of game i played, so i google what kind of game sih Sims ini, dan definisi wikipedia adalah, It is a simulation of the daily activities of one or more virtual persons ("Sims") in a suburban household near SimCity). Bearti ini adalah tipe game yang lu kaya membangun sebuah karakter. Bagaimana kita menciptakan suatu karakter yang kita mau, dan harus bertanggung jawab atas karakter yang mau kita bentuk itu. Kita harus bersosialisasi dengan karakter lain demi merealisasikan tujuan hidup dari karakter yang kita jalanin ini. Gw menggunakan game yang gw mainin aja deh ya, lupa judulnya apa, pokonya game di HP yang uda lama gw mainin sampe berulang-ulang dan baru terpancing untuk meliput sekarang ini.

Jadi kita musti perhatiin kesehatan kita, makan sehat yang biayanya agak mahal dan tidur cukup, kesehatan naik. Minum bir atau dugem, kesehatan menurun. Belajar, culture naik tapi humor turun. Nonton comedy, humor naik tapi culture turun. Bantu orang lain, kindness naik charisma juga naik. Jahat dikit aja, charisma dan kindness langsung turun jauh dan meningkatkan criminality. Saat kita masih baru newbie dimana semua categories ratenya masih rendah, orang-orang kalo diajak ngomong gitu-gitu aja ladenin kita, bahkan ada yang nyolot. Saat self-esteem, sex appeal, charisma naik, baru orang mulai lebih menghormati kita. Bahkan kalo kita uda full semua ratenya, kalo di kehidupan nyata mungkin kita uda jadi seorang yang sukses banget, semua orang baik cewe maupun cowok, baik yang pernah diajak ngobrol maupun ga pernah diajak ngobrol, semuanya pas kita lewat doang uda langsung nengok dan muncul emo love-love kagum gitu (di game gw yah ini, kalo sims gw ga tau).

Nah gimana sih caranya naikin tingkat self esteem, charisma dan sex appeal (3 unsur pokok dalem hidup)?
1. Self esteem
Self esteem atau yang biasa disebut dengan harga diri adalah hal paling pokok dan mendasar dari semua unsur. Kita harus punya harga diri yang tinggi biar bisa dihargai tinggi oleh orang lain, tapi bukan menjadi sombong. Cara ningkatin harga diri adalah dengan menjadi seorang yang pintar. Pintar dalam segala hal. Dalam pelajaran, dalam bergaul, dalam berbicara, dalam membawa diri, dalam mengatur diri dan berpenampilan. Karena orang yang akan kita menjalin hubungan itu berasal dari semua tipe. Mulai dari yang mementingkan knowledge, mementingkan kedisiplinan, mementingkan humor, mementingkan profesionalitas, mementingkan yang simpel, dan lain-lain. 
Kita harus punya sifat seperti kadal, yang bisa menyesuaikan diri dan mengubah diri sesuai dengan lingkungan, atau bahasa yang pernah diajarin sama temen gw adalah, mirroring. Kita bisa mirror menjadi seorang yang homoris saat berhadapan dengan orang yang suka bercanda. Kita bisa jadi orang yang berintelektual saat bertemu dengan orang yang pintar, dll. Intinya kita harus mengenali karakter orang yang akan kita ajak komunikasi. Ngobrol hal yang ia suka, rate self esteem, charisma dan hubungan kalian makin tinggi. Ngobrol hal yang ia ga suka, rate self esteem akan turun, dan hubungan menurun. Tapi jangan menjadi orang yang sok asik jadinya, sok-sok an ngerti dan ajak ngobrol tentang hal yang ia suka, padahal kita ga punya pengetahuan apa-apa dalem bidang itu, bukan cuma rate self esteem dan hubungan kalian yang turun, charisma juga akan turun pesat..

2. Charisma
Nah ini uda sempet disinggung dikit diatas, yang penting kalo kita uda punya self esteem, berarti untuk dapet karisma juga uda gampang. Caranya yang penting harus tau, atau bahkan bisa menguasai beberapa hal atau topik umum yang penting untuk diketahui, seperti politik, ekonomi, sport, dll. Jadi saat ketemu orang dengan hobi-hobi dan topik kesukaan umum ini, kita mudah untuk berkomunikasi dengan mereka dan meningkatkan karisma dimata mereka. Karisma biasanya tumbuh untuk hal-hal yang bersifat intelektual, bukan hal-hal yang hanya entertaining macam gosip.

3. Self appeal
Kalo self appeal uda pasti semua tau, yang penting berdandan rapi, ga menebarkan bau-bauan yang aneh, dan kalau yang uda dilahirin cantik, berbahagialah. Karena ini adalah unsur yang paling terberkati menurut gw. Saat lu dilahirin cantik, orang bawaannya seneng aja ngelihat dan ngomong sama lu. Jadi lu uda one step lebih mudah untuk grab their attention lah setidaknya. Tapi kalo kata orang bijak, semua orang dilahiri cantik, cantik on their own way. Cuma ga bermunafik, kecantikan fisik itu cukup mempengaruhi yah dalam membentuk kesan pertama (and everybody know that first impression is damn important). hahahaa..

Oke sekian pembahasan hari ini, semoga kita bisa meningkatkan ketiga unsur penting dalam hidup ini dan mencapai sukses, wuhuu.. see you babaii..


Sunday 4 November 2012

Ujian HSK

First of all, gw baru aja menambahkan 1 point di posting kemarin yang tentang 10 stupid-silly things u've ever done, silakan dicekidot. hoho.. Nah, uda lama yah gw ga bercurhat ria di blog ini. abis gw merasa curhatan pribadi gw yang bener2 curhatan, tanpa ada makna atau pesan buat dishare itu aga mengurangi kualitas tulisan gw yah.. eh cie, kaya berkualitas aja selama ini.. hohoho.. cuma hari ini gw lagi gaje pengen nulis cuma nulis bener2 tulisan curhatan. jadi bagi yang ga tertarik, silakan di close aja. soalnya seriusan, tulisan g kali ini ga penting buat dibaca. hehehe.. babaii..

eh masih baca? yada dehh silakan dibaca kalo gitu. Hohoho.. Jadi hari ini gw baru aja kelar ujian HSK. yaowo seneng banget loh berasa beban berat ini ilang juga akhirnya.. Sebenernya gw ga merasa penting buat ikutan ujian kaya ginian, makanya gw ga pernah ikutan tes TOEFL. Abisnya uda susah2 belajar, bayar mayan mahal, bikin gw pusing doang lagi. Lol.

Cuma karena ini adalah salah satu syarat buat bikin skripsi tar, jadi mau ga mau gw ikutan deh. Nah tadinya temen gw ngajak ikut ujian dari taon lalu, cuma karena waktu tuh dadakan dan mepet sama ujian di kampus, gw memilih buat ikut tahun ini aja, tapi dengan berjanji dengan diri sendiri, gw langsung ikut level 5. (just share salah satu prinsip gw: saat gw melonggarkan diri untuk santai, gw harus membuat janji buat menebus lebih di kemudian hari, dan gw wajib buat memenuhinya itu apapun yang terjadi). makanya taon ini setelah agak galau mau tes apa ga, tes level berapa, gw tetep force diri buat ambil level 5. dan ini agak hina ya.. gw uda bikin total 15 latihan dari 2 buku latihan, dan bodohnya, dari semua latian itu, salah gw tetep sama aja, naek turun tipis. bikin gw stres, monyong!

Dan setelah segala ke-stres-an dan penghiburan diri gw (kan gw cuma coba, biar aja nilainya mo gimana), akhirnya hari ini gw selesai ujian HSK tertulis dan lisan sekaligus. Dan bagaimana keadaan gw?? Tepar! seriusan rasanya capenya bukan maen.. Abisnya uda ujiannya susah (padahal temen gw bilang buku latihan lebih susah daripada tesnya tar), mejanya kecil, pendek lagi musti bongkok2 buat itemin jawaban, dan yang hina adalah, tuh kelas panasnyaaaa bukan maen!! gila heran gw itu AC banyak pada nyala apa ga. Padahal gw duduknya aga dibawah AC. huhh.. Yang bagus dari ujian hari ini adalah, gw kelar bikin semua soal, bahkan gw agak ada kelebihan waktu dikit (mengingat banyak orang yang ga selesai bikin). Gw ga tau deh nilainya gimana, yang pasti tadi pas listening, ada lumayan banyak nomor gw ketinggalan karena sempat2nya melayang (dodol abis), pas reading juga ga gt yakin karena gw bacanya super buru2 takut ga keburu. Cuma tadi pas sebelom dikumpul, gw sempet cocokin sama jejeng (kebetulan dia duduk belakang gw), dan cuma beda tipis.. Yah moga aja jawaban gw yang bener. HAHAHA!!

Tadinya pas pulang mo langsung tepar aja. Cuma gw saking senengnya ujian kelar, kayanya ga rela yah langsung tidur, jadi gw ol dulu deh.. Eh tau2nya tar malem di rcti ada I am Legend, yada apa bole buat yah.. hihih.. Yada ah uda kelar gw norak2nya. Bener kan tulisannya gw ga penting kan? nyesel kan bacanya?? hohoho.. babaiiii..

Friday 2 November 2012

10 Stupid-Silly Things U've Ever Done!

I warn you, this will be a bit gaje post, and maybe there're a lot of grammatical errors, who care. Lol
On this post, I wanna remind you about the 10 stupid-silly-things that u've ever done in this life according to my experiences (mostly happened when i was on elementary school). I'm so optimist that u also have some of my experiences! #DamnIt'sTrue. Lol. Check it out:

1. The silly things that ever happened in friendster
(1) "Leave me a testi please."
What will you think when I say "testi"? Absolutely Friendster! The previous social media that had ever very-very booming in Indonesia (before Facebook), and the stupid is, people like to asking their friends to leaving them testimonial, even there is nothing important to write, just to make its amount more and more. It seemed like we were competing to collect the most testimonial on our profile, were you?

(2) "Thanks for add me, mind intro?" / "salam kenal yach"
These asking habitual are still exist even in Facebook now. And for me, honestly I think this question is a bit alay? (sorry if u r one of the people who still do this :p) And the bad thing is, I EVER often did this before! Hahaha!!

(3) Post Bulbo
Bulbo is the acronym of Buletin Board, that located in the right bottom of your friendster home. Still remember? Usually the contain of Bulbo is questions and answers. I asked my brother if he remember about bulbo, and he answered me, "Of course, when you asking yourself question then you answering yourself, right?" HAHAH!! Such a desperate action huh? And the second bad thing is, I ALSO EVER very often did this before! Hahaha!!

4. Collecting F4 Stuffs
I'm sure everybody know who is F4, and i'm sure that almost everyone have ever so amazed by this four-cool-guys, did you or do you (maybe :p)? They were so booming when i was on the last years of my elementary school (the year that people are going to be a bit coquettish), and everybody are also collecting all about F4 stuffs. Start from notebook (i still have this -_-), pen, pencil, pencil case, fan (i also have this), etc., etc. And I ever so addicted with the movie, and watch it nonstop about 5-6 times! I don't know why I was so admiring and ever though that they were so handsome, however now I just think the naturally handsome just Vic Chou, the other is quite handsome :p


5. No cheating during the test
As the good elementary students, we always had been reminded by teachers to not cheating during the exam. And the silly thing is, students tend to act----"don't worry, I know the answers for these questions!", and even if they don't know, they are pretending like they can do the exam greatly---when the teacher is walking around the room. 
So how were they doing to act 'I can do this question'? Yap! Surrounding your paper test with your arms OR covering your upper paper test and open a small gap below to keep writing (or act writing?) OR build a high tower (mostly made by your pencil case) for preventing your friend to cheating your answers.  HAHAHA
If u think it now, is it so lebai badai? LOL!! And the other lebai-badai tips for teacher, teacher could considering this trick for your students:

6. Act like superman, superwoman, etc.
When we were a child, one of our favorite movie certainly is about superhero. And as the nosey-child, usually children like to playing their favorite superhero character, whatever it is. For me, the most character I like to play when I were a child was Kera Sakti. And stupid me, one of my favorite scene on Kera Sakti movie is, when Sungokong get a punishment to be trapped in the rock or mountain (i dont know), and only his face is free and be seen. And I did this with my brother, he trapped me exactly like Sungokong got, but by... a mountain of pillow!

7. Chatting with friend who sit EXACTLY BESIDE you
This happened to me when i was in the first year on my junior high school (when Friendster still booming). At the moment, internet wasn't so popular like now. So internet for me, as a norak children, was a greaattt stuff. Me and my friends went to internet cafe together and what we did there were only log in to Friendster, sending each other testi, and... jreng jreng jreng.. chat each other. -__-

8. Type words by:
- mixing both alphabet and number, and symbol sometimes
- mixing 'huruf kecil' (apa sih inggrisnya?) and capital letter.
- use particle 'ch' at the end of the letter.
h4llo, n4m4ku R3in4. s4L4m ken4l yach.. aDuH kaMoe baEk baNgetTh siCh? MaKasIH yAcH :)
The miserable thing is, I think it was cool to typing with that style. I ever planned to make an email with: k1ndn35s_****@yahoo.com, and i was thought, this email was so damn cool. 

9. Split your bangs in the centre + draping the drink bottle on your neck = perfect combo match!
Yah I don't know why almost every elementary girls (and I was one of them if i'm not wrong remember. -__-) or nerd student have this biksu style. I'm not disfiguring biksu, of course, but one of my high school friend who still used that style when she was high school, OMG, (without the drink bottle, luckily), was looks very similar to biksu.. haha..

The other fantastic style: rambut mangkok style.
The style for boy: they leave a small tail exactly at the centre bottom of their hair. For what ya? :s

10. Write my "diary" pliss.. [plis2 part ini gw nambahin di hari setelah kelar ujian HSK (awalnya cuma ada 9 deret), jadi biarkan gw nulis pk indonesia aja yah---sapa yang maksa lu sih ren?]
Anak SD punya hobi yaitu minta orang nulisin diari dia. Dan apa yang mereka sebut dengan menulis diari adalah menulis biodata mereka dan sedikit kata2 lainnya (seperti pantun, humor, dll). Ciri khas dan susunan anak SD dalam menulis diari adalah:

1. Pantun pembuka
Jongkok dulu baru ??? (lupa gw)
senyum dulu baru dibaca

2. isi biodata mereka [nama, alamat, umur, hobi, cita-cita, warna-makanan-buku-lagu-artis fav, TEMEN BAIK, TEMEN JAHAT (gaje abis sumpah part ini), dll, dll]

3. Gw ga tau ini namanya apa, pokonya buat kalimat dari huruf2 nama orang yang punya buku diary. misal:
R : reina namanya
E : elang peliharaannya
I : ikan lauknya
N : nasi makanannya
A : ah, uda dulu yah.. --> the best part of all. Lol! :))

4: part ini bisa ada bisa ga, humor atau pantun penutup. yang ngetrend sih pantun:
burung elang burung cendrawasih
cukup sekian terima kasih

kalo ada sumur di ladang
boleh kita menumpang mandi
kalo ada umurku panjang
boleh kita berjumpa lagi

5: tambahan lain: buat lipatan di sudut kertas dan ditulis note. Notenya mulai dari yang gaje sampe ke super gaje. yang paling cool adalah:
lipatan depan: jangan dibuka
lipatan dalam: udah dibilangin jangan dibuka masih dibuka! -->; what the abis.. :))


sekian deretan stupid-silly edisi kali ini. kapan2 kalo keinget lagi, akan diupdate. see youuu :D